A Simple Friend And A Real Friend

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why it took you so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens the refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had fight.

A simple friend will say later.
A real friend will make the time for you now.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

And real friend I will be to all my friends!

The above poem is dedicated to all my friends as friends come and go but then real friends i really hope to keep. Love you all my frens!

Taken from: http://www.pravsworld.com/new/friendsnfriendships.htm

Heart Determines

It's ok to kiss a fool,
It's ok to let a fool kiss you,
but never ever let a kiss fool you....

It's still best to wait for the one you want
than settle for the one available.
Best to wait for the one you love
than settle for one who's around.
Best to wait for the right one.
Life is short to waste on the wrong person....

It is better to meet the person who will truly love you later,
than meet someone now who promises to love
you but sooner or later leave you forever.....

Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in love with you
If you do, you will be expected to keep the standard for the rest of your life...

Fate determines who comes into our lives. The heart determines who stays...

Taken from: http://www.pravsworld.com/new/luvnromance.htm

If You Love Someone

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...then it's not love .. it's ~ Infatuation ~......
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's ~ compromise ~.......
If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out his touch ....then it's not love .. it's ~lust~......
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...then it's not love.. it's ~ inferiority complex~......
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..then it's not love .. it's ~charity~....
If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...then it's not love... it's ~friendship~...
but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's ~LOVE~
if you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets...that's ~LOVE~
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ...that's ~LOVE~




*I think the above poem is so true. I think many of us are stuck in relationships due to the above reason. But then how many of us can really live it the way we want it to be without any feeling of remorse? Just follow your heart and doing what is right. I also do hope to find the courage to follow my heart and never ever feel regret doing what I've done with a happy feeling deep down my heart.*

My first day blogging!

Well well well, who would have expected that I would have started my own blog. Last time I used to think that who has so much time to write blog and long grandmother stories. And now here am I writing grandmother stories. I suppose it is a way to write out ur suppressed feelings. Sometimes when you have no one to turn to or to tell to I suppose this is one way where u can express urself.

Sometimes it's nice to read peoples' stories and then think that why is my life so boring. I suppose I am about to start a history here. I hope I would have the time and patience to keep on writing whenever I think I have the inspiration or 'feel' to write. Hehe! ;)

I think since it's my first day. I would like to keep it short and simple. Hopefully in future it would be all colorful and interesting. Alrites, it's Me signing off now! Ciao!